Could You Be Making This Common Driving Mistake?


Hi Reader

You care deeply about your teen’s safetyand that’s why you’ve taken on the role of teaching them to drive. But here’s something many well-meaning parents don’t realise: it’s not just what you teach; it’s how you teach it.

If you’ve ever walked away from a drive thinking, “That was more stressful than it should’ve been”, you’re not alone. Even with the best of intentions, it’s easy to fall into a pattern of correcting instead of coaching.

That’s why this week, I’m sharing a big mindset shift that can turn your lessons around. The truth is, when we focus too much on what our teens are doing wrong, we unintentionally create pressure and disconnection.

Instead, what if you had a structure that allowed you to:

✔️ Communicate clearly (without raising your voice)

✔️ Focus on progress over perfection

✔️ Create a calm space where your teen can actually learn?

That’s what becoming a Confident Coach is all about—and I’m here to help you make that shift.

🎁 This week’s free resource is the Top 5 Teaching Mistakes (and What to Do Instead) PDF. It’s short, practical, and game-changing.

📥 Top 5 Teaching Mistakes (and what to do instead)

Remember...this journey is as much about building connection as it is about building skill.

And the good news? You’re doing both.

You’ve got this,
Deb

Hills 2 Ocean Driver Training

Hi, I'm Deb James, the owner of Hills 2 Ocean Driver Training. I am dedicated to empowering parents with the tools and knowledge to confidently guide their teens on the journey to becoming skilled and safe drivers. Our mission is to ensure that learner drivers develop strong, confident driving abilities by experiencing a wide range of driving situations—led by parents who are equipped with the same techniques and insights as professional instructors. In addition, we offer one-on-one driving lessons reinforcing the entire driving journey.

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